Why should your default state be KIND?

Ivan Nyagatare
3 min readMay 11, 2023

“Sometimes it takes only one act of kindness and caring to change a person’s life. – Jackie Chan

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Living a modest life and cultivating empathy both necessitate an attitude of kindness. It’s a powerful trait for improving one’s own happiness, strengthening relationships, and making the world a kinder place for everyone.

When we embrace kindness, we not only positively touch others but also nourish our own inner growth and pleasure.

In the pursuit of a simple existence, kindness acts as a guiding principle that helps us to focus on what actually matters. When we do good deeds for other people, we train ourselves to care about them as people rather than as objects.

We discover the delight of selfless acts of kindness, generosity, and compassion.

Kindness begins with the understanding that we all struggle.
– Charles Glassman

A more balanced and satisfying life is possible when we use kindness as a way to disengage from the stresses of daily life.

Empathy and kindness go hand in hand. When we put in the effort to be compassionate, we try to put ourselves in the other person’s shoes and feel what they’re feeling.

It enables us to connect on a deeper level, transcending differences and fostering a sense of unity and understanding.

When we have empathy for another person, we are better able to understand their plight and respond to it with compassion, understanding, and a willingness to provide a hand.

Increasing our compassion and understanding through acts of generosity is a life-altering process. It helps us recognise the value in everyone and grow in our respect of variety.

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Compassion is a passion with a heart

As we become more empathetic, we learn to listen attentively, suspend judgment, and cultivate a genuine desire to alleviate suffering.

This sympathetic approach enriches our relationships, enhances our capacity to communicate effectively, and fosters harmony within our communities.

The effects of kindness and empathy on our own health are substantial. When we help others, no matter how big or tiny, we feel happier and more connected to the world.

The "helper's high" that people who perform charitable deeds experience is a result of the endorphins that kindness releases, which elevate our mood.

Doing good deeds has a multiplicative effect on our own psychological and emotional health, as well as the lives of those around us.

Fundamentally, compassion and understanding are cornerstones of a simple and fulfilling existence. They serve as a gentle nudge to practise kindness, concern for others, and compromise.

When we live with these characteristics in mind, we create a world where everyone’s happiness and success are prioritised.

Let us work to make compassion and understanding the bedrock of our daily lives, creating a better and more empathetic world for future generations.

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Ivan Nyagatare
Ivan Nyagatare

Written by Ivan Nyagatare

I am a writer, educator, creator and entrepreneur. Focused on creating tech tools, content, books and courses to help you develop better perspectives.

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