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The Moment You Stop Performing, Everything Shifts!
And it’s worth the risk.
There’s a version of you the world has come to know.
The one who’s agreeable. Helpful. Put-together. Always smiling, always showing up, always saying the right thing. The version of you who makes it easy for others to stay comfortable, even if you’re quietly unravelling.
That version of you isn’t fake.
It’s a survival strategy.
It’s what kept you safe. It’s how you adapted. It’s how you learned to belong in spaces that weren’t always built for the fullness of your truth.
But one day, you feel it.
The exhaustion of performance.
The ache of pretending.
The quiet grief of never being met in your whole truth, because no one’s ever seen it.
And then you realise:
The moment you stop performing, everything shifts.
Not immediately. Not always easily. But profoundly.
Because when you stop performing, you start living.
Not for approval. Not for applause. But from alignment.
You begin to say what you feel.
