Remember that the way out is the way in!

Ivan Nyagatare
3 min readApr 24, 2023
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These days, we want answers to our problems immediately so that we can get back to our busy lives. We look for answers to our inner turmoil outside of ourselves in the hope that they may lead us to peace.

However, we must remember that we, ourselves, may have the key to solving our difficulties. The expression “the way out is the way in” is particularly relevant here.

The maxim “the way out is the way in” implies that we must go within ourselves for answers to external problems. In other words, when things get rough, it’s best to do some soul-searching to figure out what to do next.

Unfortunately, this method is typically disregarded since we are socialized to look for answers elsewhere rather than within ourselves.

“At the centre of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want.”– Lao Tzu

When someone feels stressed out and overwhelmed, for instance, this is the case. They could try to take their minds off things by watching television, eating junk food, or drinking alcohol.

These external remedies may help in the short term, but they do nothing to alleviate the source of the stress.

Natural relief comes from identifying what’s causing your stress and developing strategies to deal with it. Introspection and the courage to face one’s own emotions are prerequisites.

“The way out is the way in” also applies when trying to make a tough choice. For example, they could talk to someone they trust, research the matter independently, or get expert input. These outside resources can be informative, but they may not include all the information one needs.

“You have no need to travel anywhere. Journey within yourself, enter a mine of rubies and bathe in the splendour of your own light.”– Rumi

The best way forward is for each person to consider their own values and priorities and then act according to their own sense of what is right. This necessitates a readiness to rely on one’s gut and internal guidance.

To close ourselves off from the world is not what “the way out is the way in” means at all. Instead, it’s about realizing that we already contain many solutions we’re looking for.

The key is learning to rely on our intuition and having the necessary abilities. To do so, we must put ourselves out there and face our anxieties and uncertainties.

5 Benefits of Learning to Trust Your Intuition

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“Your real self may be hiding somewhere, look for it within, when you find yourself, you can freely be what you want to be.”– Michael Bassey Johnson

It’s not always simple, but it’s usually the best method to find long-term answers to our issues.

The exception? But there is one!

Your faith!

Having faith in something greater than ourselves is a beautiful source of fortitude and solace in times of trial. It is the conviction that we are part of a larger whole, whether that be the universe, a moral code, or a higher force.

Faith allows us to make sense of adversity and look forward to the future.

This can strengthen our resolve to persevere in the face of adversity. Whether via prayer, meditation, or any other spiritual practise, developing one’s faith can give us a firm foundation upon which to weather the inevitable storms of life.

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Ivan Nyagatare
Ivan Nyagatare

Written by Ivan Nyagatare

I am a writer, educator, creator and entrepreneur. Focused on creating tech tools, content, books and courses to help you develop better perspectives.

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